A woman tells me she was alone for six years because men find her too attractive to date and her confidence intimidating.
Shirley Rosemary Flynn, 41, of Birmingham claims that nasty trolls referred to her as “arrogant” after she came out and said that guys were afraid to date her because to her attractive appearance.
She said that because of her attractiveness, men would suddenly back out of their plans to date her. Shirley added that she finds it difficult to make friends because insecure women ‘envy’ her appearance. But Shirley has been receiving marriage proposals despite her difficulties in the dating game.
The OnlyFans model claimed, “I’ve been inundated with messages from men asking me out on dates and even making marriage proposals and offers abroad.”
“People say they don’t want to date me because I’m too arrogant because they think I’m full of myself and arrogant.” “I found it amusing that some people said I was conceited.” Given that they are visibly insecure, it appears that older or middle-aged women are the primary source of it.
A stunning, self-assured lady wouldn’t respond to that; instead, she would laugh it off and move on. “A few of them suggested that I visit Specsavers because, well, I wear glasses and I still look hot.”
Shirley claimed in the past that her attractiveness had even gotten her into trouble with ex-boyfriends who would become envious when she attracted attention from other men. She also states that she is still holding out hope for meeting “the one” and believes that someone who is up to the task will come along.
She wants to encourage women to stop comparing themselves to other women and instead to feel more confident in who they are. “I was astonished to receive numerous requests for dates and marriage from men on my Facebook and Instagram,” Shirley remarked.
Women wouldn’t be fighting among themselves, in my opinion, if all of them had self-confidence and could tell themselves, “I’m confident, beautiful, and sexy,” when they looked in the mirror.
They say things about how artificial my curves are, but I’m natural and haven’t paid for them.
Many overweight women fear they won’t get interest from men; yet, I receive more attention now than I did in my younger years. I try not to compare myself to other women because there are plenty of younger, slimmer, and more attractive women than me.
Therefore, I don’t hold myself against them.
Shirley, who goes by “Busty Malone” on TikTok, has been banned from the app several times for posting intimate videos. She claims that this is because of prejudice towards her JJ-sized breasts. Shirley has been repeatedly banned from TikTok since September 2020 due to her ‘violating community norms’ by posting exposing content and dressing provocatively.
It is prejudice, as she has stated to Hull Live. I’m getting banned due to my enormous breasts. No, my videos are not obscene or nude. “They wouldn’t have complained about me if I were a size eight, or a B or C cup.”
Shirley receives a tonne of mail alleging that she had plastic surgery, but she maintains that her bust is entirely natural.
