It takes a lot of bravery to love someone, especially for an introverted man who falls in love with someone thousands of miles away while being completely aware of the dangers and the constant worry of losing his true love. This is made considerably more difficult when your relationship is conducted online, where you will never meet or speak to the many strangers who are willing to pass judgement on you.
One such relationship began a few years ago when an Indian programmer discovered his love in a European female he met on a coding platform.
I’m referring to the coding pair Vika and Nik, who are becoming well-known due to their love and divergent personalities.
The responses:
Many people said that Nik wasn’t conventionally attractive, and they attacked Vika for picking him based on that. Some merely showered the pair with blessings and expressed their joy for them, while others asked Nik for tips on how to attract attractive women.
One user reacted, “I don’t know who this guy is or Vika for that matter but she truly saw that man for who he is and she loved every bit of that. I am happy for both of them.”
Another user commented, “And the Indian way of life is too alluring for these western people. The warmth, connect to roots, culture, they’re always left in awe.”
One user reacted, “I don’t know who this guy is or Vika for that matter but she truly saw that man for who he is and she loved every bit of that. I am happy for both of them.”
Another user reacted, “Most of the handsome NRI’s marry quite average looking expats, for reason’s I’m not aware of. This one though looks like an exception.”
Who are we to pass judgement?
I believe that love is one of the few relationships that we pick and decide to live with for the rest of our lives, as Bollywood has taught us: “Pyaar kiya nahi jaata, ho jaata hai.”
It’s human nature to pass judgement, and we frequently do so when someone doesn’t live up to our standards. But it’s crucial to keep in mind that everyone has their own fairy tale and should be allowed to live it free from criticism and other people’s views.
